Changes

 In April 2011 Scott was let go from his job at a law firm.  Whenever he told people that he was a law clerk they would ask the same question, "Oh, so you want to be a lawyer?"  Anyone who knows Scott knows that couldn't be further from what he wants to be.  So we took the loss of his job as a blessing in disguise.  We decided to use this as an opportunity for him to finally get into the field he wanted to be in.  The next few months were scary, because I was pregnant and wanted desperately to stay at home with my baby.  In August Scott was hired as a temp for Activision, a large video game company.  He was very excited to be working for them, but it was scary for both of us because it was only supposed to last until October, which was only a few days after we had our child.  Well that two months stretched into 17.  On January 4th, 2013 Scott was finally let go from Activision.  Again, we were terrified.  We were already living on a very limited income- we were spending more than we were making, and not spending money on anything extra.  And now we have a 15-month-old and no income.

The only thing that kept me together at this time was my faith.  I knew the Lord would take care of us, as he has so many times before.  I stumbled across the scripture Isaiah 41:10,13: "Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.  For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee."  I put it up on my wall and it has been my mantra.  It has really helped to calm me and reminded me to look at the big picture.

Again, we have decided to use this opportunity and see it as a blessing in disguise.  Before having Penny, I worked as a veterinary technician.  I graduated with my BS a week before marrying Scott, and 8 months later, earned my RVT.  I loved working with animals and in medicine so this was a dream job for me.  But, quitting so I could take care of my child was a no-brainer.  The plan was for us to have our family and then I would return to work once the youngest was in school.  I actually enjoy working, but my family comes in a huge first.  BUT, as so often happens, the plans have changed.

After much researching, pondering, fasting and praying, we have come to a decision.  Scott is going back to school full time to get his BA in graphic design (That is the plan for now at least, he may end up doing a certificate program or something).  He will be the stay-at-home-parent while I work.  I start a new job at an animal hospital in Santa Fe Springs (which is about 15 minutes from us) on Friday and Scott plans to start school in the fall after using this time to research schools and programs.  We are very excited, even though we only know what our lives will look like for a few months at a time!

So to all my stay-at-home-mom friends, thank you for your friendship and I will miss you!  Hopefully we can still get together on my day off now and then.  And if anyone knows any stay-at-home-dads, Scott could use some buddies!

Dumb Ways to Die

This is our new favorite video.  And we might be bad parents because it's also Penny's favorite video.  Watch it, you'll love it and have the song stuck in your head but you won't mind because it's awesome.

Warning: Don't watch this if you don't like cartoon violence!